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A heartbroken sub whose beloved Dom of two years had to move away and is now unable to continue a relationship. Looking to fall in love all over again, allowing me to totally give myself over to my forever partner and Dom going forward. I promise to show the right man not only my full and uncompromising submission but also an insatiable appetite for shared pleasure. I will become your everything, as you will be mine.
Female (51) Seattle, Washington
Just trying this out. Hopefully it goes.. Edit: I made a mistake with my age creating the account and I can't seem to change the age. I'm thirty nine.
Female (57) Seattle, Washington
Upright and straight forward always grateful and contented, hardworking in all aspects if you know what I mean, forgiving but not forgetful, love trying new thing and getting creative and I’m a thinker.
Female (26) Seattle, Washington
Beginning to wonder if any actual humans use this app? Identifiable photos to follow some reasonable amount of dialogue - it’s mortifying to app-match with a work colleague, dontcha know. Looking for one-time or ongoing NSA daddy dom who can help me with a praise/degredation/aftercare need. Who wants to play with my hair and tell me I’m a good sweet baby girl after I submit my mouth and body to being degraded and used. I’m a self-sufficient grownup woman in my straight life, not looking for a boyfriend or caretaker. Just choosing to indulge some newfound hyper-sexuality where I spend most days wanting to offer myself up for a man’s use in a safe and discreet manner. As either a side note or a bonus, depending on how you look at it: I really really really like to suck dick. I’d also be very happy with an occasional switchy with a good boy with a reciprocal interest. All naughty chatting aside, please include your thoughts on ensuring personal safety for a woman engaging in pseudo-random encounters.
Female (50) Seattle, Washington
Brat looking for a D♡ddy to ride into the sunset ♥︎ tit biting breeding kink, cumslut sensory deprivation hand fetish, spanking, face slapping somnophilia, cnc ♥︎ need a husband/wifey to use me 24/7 My dream in life is to be a stay at home fucktoy. Looking for someone to take care of me and take advantage of me. Destroy me, respectfully. I'm a romantic at heart. ♥︎ Into people who look like trouble or like they went to Oxford, Dracula after his glow up. Care-giver, good hair; touchy-feely and obsessed with me. ... Not really into online stuff, willing to make exceptions
Female (25) Seattle, Washington
Bisexual, demisexual, Polyamorous, neurospicy Goddess, Artist and Maker. I love learning and exploring, teaching and growing in as many ways as possible. I am a Goddess for the intelligent, talented, and creative submissives. For the strong, and quick witted who need someone smarter than them in control. I am a muse. I'm knowledgeable in things like mycology, many forms of art and craft, cooking and baking, games, psychology, fandom, anime, nature, gardening, witchcraft.... My interests and skills range vastly, both inside and outside of the bedroom. In short, I'm fun to talk to and can get specifically kinky with you, easily. Try me. I'm a very open minded, but also a very discerning Goddess. How can you be of service to me? You are valid! You are seen. You are heard.
Female (40) Seattle, Washington
I am sweet and kind...looking for a real relationship! With passion, honesty, and Kindness! So I was raised and believe that a woman place is at home and not in the work ***; this is what i am lookingfor..taking care of her man...in my defense I can also grill better than most men! Homemade fettuccine alfredo etc...peanut butter cups, fudge, etc...
Female (46) Seattle, Washington
I'm looking for a relationship with a genuine person who matches my values and can explore each other's kinks
Female (37) Seattle, Washington
A mature widow looking for some love and affection once more. I am originally a German but I’ve lived in the states for over 23 years. I have a son but he lives on his own
Female (50) Seattle, Washington
I am active, positive, easy-going and ready for any endeavor. I love dancing and I'm looking for a partner who would support me in this. I love attention and care, by my nature I am a giver and I would like to find the same in my man. My love languages are physical contact and help. I believe in goodness and rational optimism. I also believe in always being yourself and doing what feels right to you. I believe in intuition and that sometimes illogical things are more correct than logical.
Female (43) Seattle, Washington
Looking for a partner with a wide range of interests, optimistic and cheerful, willing to explore the world together and enjoy every moment of life.
Female (36) Seattle, Washington
I mostly enjoy *** where I'm ***d doing disgusting things like spitting, rimming, feet licking, pet play. To make it more intense i love the idea of being ***d and having absolutely no freedom of choice, being used by a large group is also appealing especially if everyone is after a sport and are sweaty. **Desires and Fantasies** Being degraded by large groups of strangers, ***d to lick their ass holes and feet while everyone is spitting in my mouth and I'm ***d to swallow everything.
Female (20) Seattle, Washington
If you are shy, I will be very enthusiastic, if you like to be in control, I will be the most well-behaved cat.
Female (34) Seattle, Washington
I looking for people to chat with, become friends and possibly fwb. I'm chill woman with many interests from mundane to kinky. I am 420 friendly and hsv+. Hit me up, at least you'll have a good convo?
Female (37) Seattle, Washington
Practicing sadist. My eye isn’t caught very often, but respect may just get you some attention. Hint: Start with hello, end with thank you. My first exposure to *** as a kink was several years ago. Back then I didn’t understand how to properly utilize the power in that kind of interaction. Since then, I’ve come to crave the rush I get from enforcing my power over those who wish to be devoured. In all my online and in person experience, the one area I’m lacking in is dominating through video call. This is something I would very much like to pursue more of. Do not impose your kinks onto me. I’m not here to help you get off. You’re here to get off on my getting off, only after I’ve gotten off. Get it? Hobbies include: Watching foreign films, going out with friends, writing, ***ting, cooking, and learning.
Female (19) Seattle, Washington
5f8, 190lbs Looking for an IRL situation based in Seattle, I live downtown and don’t drive so the closer the better! What im looking for: An experienced Dom that is well-versed in BDSM for a longish term (might move out of Seattle next summer) dynamic. I would love to learn from you as I am relatively new to the kink world!! I’m a quick learner and I’m pretty adventurous as long as you’ve earned my trust and care about my well-being. I filled out a kink sheet so you can get a better idea of what I’m interested in. I can share that once we connect :) Hard limits: ***, age play, pet play, race play, sending nsfw videos/pics
Female (23) Seattle, Washington
new to all this. interested in exploring different sides to myself. be patient. be kind.
Female (26) Seattle, Washington
mischievous bunny interested in being a good girl. it’s just so hard when I know making bad decisions come with consequences 😍 Brat is such a harsh label, but if the ***r fits😘
Female (35) Seattle, Washington
Full panel last tested on 12/08/2023 All results are negative. Kinky world: I have practiced kink since the beginning of my sex journey but never have set aside enough time to participate in local community. Feel free to follow me along my journey while I navigate all of that Love sharing a safe space to experience and grow within all respected limits ****Not seeking any new play partners but always open to new friends in my local communities.*** DM’s are open for you to get to know me and my experience Some of my current roles: • Bratty Princess • Sadomasochist • Switch Visit my other site. Attendance is more frequent! Linked in websites on here. I have a fair share of posts on their forum that have initiated some discussions that could be beneficial to beginners in BDSM and other communities. (Also catch me in their lobby being a ghoul) In my vanilla world: Originally from SF, Ca and travel back to the community when I can :3 bananasbandanas •Mommy to a 3 yr/o Tan and Silver GSD named Eclipse! • I love playing my acoustic guitar, I love to cook, filming and editing is fun and I like to play games when I have free time >:3 •Heavily into astrology and Wicca •A mental health advocate, emo asf and anime enthusiast • Friendly to married iguanas and those who partake • Shot O’clock all day
Female (26) Seattle, Washington
**# P L E A S E N O T E - ** **MOVING HOUSE until Dec 15th in case I don't respond. Any other platform you wish to talk on, just ask for it.** 💌 I only initiate messages if you can't, and ask me to. I'm super reserved and can be incredibly shy. Often leads to people thinking I'm not interested, but I might just be more interested than you think. I just struggle to show it. Just ask. I prefer hunters, leaders, initiator. I will not chase you if you leave. Quality over quantity. Not all will be responded to. Yes, I'm real. Yes, I respond to real conversation. Yes I want something real and commited. Don't send me "hi," or "how are you," "what you up to" "wyd" any minimal effort messages, or any text speak unless you want to be deleted. If you prefer using voice messages go for it. I won't, but you're welcome to. NOT INTO having a sub, casual, cyber fun, sharing, or pic exchanges. I am too serious, deep, and sensitive for casual anything. # What am I open to? (I have not had a laundry list of sexual experiences/partners so this is not a list of I have done.) A Dom (soft & hard). TPE. CNC. Free use. Love mask play, breeding kink too. That raw primal possessive ***istic aspect gets me. **All encompassing 24/7, lifetime romantic relationship.** Impact play. Ownership, possession, control. Someone who enjoys teaching, who wants help me learn more. Not already broken in. New & learning. I've been through a lot of sexual *** and trauma so need a solid strong stable hand, and patience to build trust. I was raised by a narcissist. It does not mean I *** and balk from ***, or rough treatment. Plenty more that can be negotiated/discussed, but strangers don't need to know it. Older or younger as long as you're an adult. I am more into depth, connection, intelligence, communication, attraction. _**NOTE - Anyone can request my private gallery, it's just more of me. I used to hide my face 🙈 It's NOT my body. My body belongs to the one I'll be in a relationship with because he'll take my clothes off and see it, not the entire internet.**_ 🛑 I don't meet people online to off right away. I feel it's important to build trust first, so my template is text - phone - video - meet. It allows time for us both to get to know one another through consistent communication, and see if there's even compatibility enough TO meet, and make an even deeper connection. Totally understand if it doesn't work for you. # Who am I? 🌻 INFJ-T Enneagram Type 6 Wing 5 (6w5 Loyalist) Conundrum. Old-fashioned and traditional. The quiet girl next door who loves to cook (homemade bread for the win!), write (I'm a published author of 53+ stories - paranormal romance, dark fantasy, science fiction, sci fantasy, fantasy, and horror), read (everything), game, and play with my dogs. Blogger (articles). Podcaster. I prefer taking care of my house than running here and there. I'm naturally bubbly most days. I've never met a soul who didn't think I was over 20-30 because I look young. Yes, I really am 44. I'm too honest to lie. I prefer deep discussions. Can't stand lie effort investors. Homebody who will clean, listen to music, and dance happily by herself. I speak my mind, I'm pretty open, always honest, but try never to be rude. I was raised and trained very much to be a "lady," and can't break myself of a lot of those habits. I have manners. Sapiosexual. Incredibly passionate. High libido. 😱 If you can tap into it, and the passion within? Oh boy. I love psychology and philosophy. Authenticity wins, directness, boldness, courage. Always. I have a deep desire to learn, to grow as a person. _**Being old-fashioned and traditional means that I am**._ I love to pour everything into the man I'm with, adore him, build him up, support him, make him dinner and wait on him, give him back massages. I am 100% loyal. I love to make men feel incredible, and amazing, which is also a huge reason I'm open to trying almost anything with my person, and want to find someone who is into the idea too. I have a deep desire to serve and to please the person I'm with, to treat him like a King. It goes beyond people pleasing to a deeper level. It fulfills me. _**What am I looking for in a potential long term partner outside of the rest, I was asked.** - A stable, strong, secure man. Consistency in communication. Someone who actually commits & stays which seems rare in this world. Intelligence. I really like jack of all trade types. I always sought a best friend beneath all the rest. Because that binds us when life gets hard. So someone I just can truly connect to deeply, laugh & play with, and talk about anything and everything. Who is open and honest, loyal, and not afraid to bare his soul to me. Someone I can unleash the passion I've held back for a long time with too who won't think I'm too much, or starve me with breadcrumbs. Someone I can build a life with, who will work with me when there are problems, who I can disagree with and he doesn't bolt right away. A provider, a protector. (FetLife - kittygotsclaws) # BDSM Test Results 100% Submissive 86% Rope bunny 79% Brat 72% Slave 64% Masochist 63% Experimentalist 62% Primal (Prey) 62% Vanilla 59% Pet 36% Voyeur 29% Exhibitionist 29% Little 15% Ageplayer 6% Degradee Quality control question - tell me you read this far by writing CHEESECAKE at the top of the message you send me.
Female (44) Seattle, Washington
Professional bully✨️ Femdom+Findom. Heavily leaning on the dominant side. I would consider myself on the extreme side of kink. I'm looking for subs and switches to explore more about my own fantasies, and help you fulfill yours. I would also would just love friends, not everything has to be fetish based. I also have a couple more extreme/"gross" fetishes. I understand not everyone will be into it but if youre also into some wack stuff lmk.
Female (21) Seattle, Washington
I'm a hedonist, sadist, and sensualist who has been connected to the Seattle BDSM scene for about 20 years. I have a lifetime membership to the Center for Sex Positive Culture, such as it presently is. In the meantime, I have been enjoying the Yes M'Lady munches and mixers. I may or may not have been born a dominant, but life circumstances prevented me from realizing my role until I reached my 40's. As I grew older, I found myself running my relationships from behind the social curtain - and I suffered for it. I do not think that *I* should be the one who suffers, and I think that any suffering should be consensual: SSC, RACK, or otherwise. I’ve attended Black Beat (Baltimore, MD), KinkFest (Portland, OR), Leather Reign (Seattle, WA), The Gathering (Seattle, WA), and SW Leather Conference (Phoenix, AZ). My ideal situation isn't someone taking over all household duties as much as someone being assigned responsibilities of their own, me taking my favorites, and us combining on the others. It's just that I decided which are which. It could be some combination of my preferences and our abilities. There's stuff that I'd love someone else to handle, but if they're physically unable to do it ... well, crap. As edgy as it can be to detest holidays and be grumpy about PDA, I enjoy decorating for and at least mildly participating in both holidays and small public displays of affection and expect the same in my partners. Grinches need not apply. I'm very allergic to cats (go look up "pork-cat syndrome". Seriously, I'll wait) and have few illusions on who would win a "it's the cat or me" challenge, so I'm just saving us all some time here. Although I have lived with partners in the past, I have never asked a partner to live with me and like living on my own. Any partners who wish to live near me are free to move to nearby districts, neighborhoods, streets, buildings, or units within the one I live. However, if I ever decide that I wish to live with a partner then I will make the offer. I love thud play from all directions. I'm primarily comfortable bottoming sexually, adore service tops, and am exploring being more switchy when it comes to sex. I'm an unapologetic tickle top, though I can usually behave myself ... mostly. I’m fully vaccinated, complete with five boosters. I also have HPV: I hit the cancerous-strain lottery with mine, but it's remission so ... go me? I advocate strongly for safer sex practices. **Desires and Fantasies** CBT, caning, tease and denial, punching, scratching / abrasion, nipple play, watersports, tickling, grappling, sounding, forehead kisses, cheek kisses, cooing, submissive daddies, receiving service - both domestic and body, face-sitting, edging, dry nursing, "devotional sex", biting and other sorts of primal play, gymnophobia, some electrical play, discreet public play, men in sexy panties, watching men lick up their own cum (be it on me or elsewhere), fauxing, and receiving oral sex on demand.
Female (56) Seattle, Washington
i need someone who can make me clean my room, remind me to drink water, and take control. just an ADHD little looking for her type A person, to care for me, and tell me what to do, and if I respect you, maybe i’ll listen ✨😌
Female (27) Seattle, Washington
queer femme switch, coming back into my fucking feral goddess energy and loving every lust-filled, badass moment of it Breast / nipple worship (I can cum just from that), light bondage, spanking/whipping/biting/impact play that doesn’t involve drawing *** (significant bruising is a-okay), switch for switch energy, sex in public places, dirty talk, begging to orgasm, audio erotica (fucking feral for this), care play (being told I’m safe, I’m in control, that my neediness is welcomed & celebrated, that I’m cared for), pegging my partner, fun with floggers, being talked through to orgasm, anticipation, body worship, intense consent discussion, squirting (recent achievement unlocked!), occasional findom for the right person, voyeurism, being blindfolded, orgasm denial / edging, exhibitionism, PRAISE! (praise praise and more praise because I am a very good girl), being a sub to a pleasure dom, strap ons, chase or abduction as seduction (after thorough discussion and planning and so much consent), fisting (only with a very trusted partner)…. constantly evolving
Female (42) Seattle, Washington

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Just trying this out. Hopefully it goes.. Edit: I made a mistake with my age creating the account and I can't seem to change the age. I'm thirty nine.
Female (57) Seattle, Washington
A heartbroken sub whose beloved Dom of two years had to move away and is now unable to continue a relationship. Looking to fall in love all over again, allowing me to totally give myself over to my forever partner and Dom going forward. I promise to show the right man not only my full and uncompromising submission but also an insatiable appetite for shared pleasure. I will become your everything, as you will be mine.
Female (51) Seattle, Washington
A mature widow looking for some love and affection once more. I am originally a German but I’ve lived in the states for over 23 years. I have a son but he lives on his own
Female (50) Seattle, Washington
I am active, positive, easy-going and ready for any endeavor. I love dancing and I'm looking for a partner who would support me in this. I love attention and care, by my nature I am a giver and I would like to find the same in my man. My love languages are physical contact and help. I believe in goodness and rational optimism. I also believe in always being yourself and doing what feels right to you. I believe in intuition and that sometimes illogical things are more correct than logical.
Female (43) Seattle, Washington
Looking for a partner with a wide range of interests, optimistic and cheerful, willing to explore the world together and enjoy every moment of life.
Female (36) Seattle, Washington
Upright and straight forward always grateful and contented, hardworking in all aspects if you know what I mean, forgiving but not forgetful, love trying new thing and getting creative and I’m a thinker.
Female (26) Seattle, Washington
Beginning to wonder if any actual humans use this app? Identifiable photos to follow some reasonable amount of dialogue - it’s mortifying to app-match with a work colleague, dontcha know. Looking for one-time or ongoing NSA daddy dom who can help me with a praise/degredation/aftercare need. Who wants to play with my hair and tell me I’m a good sweet baby girl after I submit my mouth and body to being degraded and used. I’m a self-sufficient grownup woman in my straight life, not looking for a boyfriend or caretaker. Just choosing to indulge some newfound hyper-sexuality where I spend most days wanting to offer myself up for a man’s use in a safe and discreet manner. As either a side note or a bonus, depending on how you look at it: I really really really like to suck dick. I’d also be very happy with an occasional switchy with a good boy with a reciprocal interest. All naughty chatting aside, please include your thoughts on ensuring personal safety for a woman engaging in pseudo-random encounters.
Female (50) Seattle, Washington
If you are shy, I will be very enthusiastic, if you like to be in control, I will be the most well-behaved cat.
Female (34) Seattle, Washington
I'm looking for a relationship with a genuine person who matches my values and can explore each other's kinks
Female (37) Seattle, Washington
Brat looking for a D♡ddy to ride into the sunset ♥︎ tit biting breeding kink, cumslut sensory deprivation hand fetish, spanking, face slapping somnophilia, cnc ♥︎ need a husband/wifey to use me 24/7 My dream in life is to be a stay at home fucktoy. Looking for someone to take care of me and take advantage of me. Destroy me, respectfully. I'm a romantic at heart. ♥︎ Into people who look like trouble or like they went to Oxford, Dracula after his glow up. Care-giver, good hair; touchy-feely and obsessed with me. ... Not really into online stuff, willing to make exceptions
Female (25) Seattle, Washington
I am sweet and kind...looking for a real relationship! With passion, honesty, and Kindness! So I was raised and believe that a woman place is at home and not in the work ***; this is what i am lookingfor..taking care of her man...in my defense I can also grill better than most men! Homemade fettuccine alfredo etc...peanut butter cups, fudge, etc...
Female (46) Seattle, Washington
Bisexual, demisexual, Polyamorous, neurospicy Goddess, Artist and Maker. I love learning and exploring, teaching and growing in as many ways as possible. I am a Goddess for the intelligent, talented, and creative submissives. For the strong, and quick witted who need someone smarter than them in control. I am a muse. I'm knowledgeable in things like mycology, many forms of art and craft, cooking and baking, games, psychology, fandom, anime, nature, gardening, witchcraft.... My interests and skills range vastly, both inside and outside of the bedroom. In short, I'm fun to talk to and can get specifically kinky with you, easily. Try me. I'm a very open minded, but also a very discerning Goddess. How can you be of service to me? You are valid! You are seen. You are heard.
Female (40) Seattle, Washington
I mostly enjoy *** where I'm ***d doing disgusting things like spitting, rimming, feet licking, pet play. To make it more intense i love the idea of being ***d and having absolutely no freedom of choice, being used by a large group is also appealing especially if everyone is after a sport and are sweaty. **Desires and Fantasies** Being degraded by large groups of strangers, ***d to lick their ass holes and feet while everyone is spitting in my mouth and I'm ***d to swallow everything.
Female (20) Seattle, Washington
I looking for people to chat with, become friends and possibly fwb. I'm chill woman with many interests from mundane to kinky. I am 420 friendly and hsv+. Hit me up, at least you'll have a good convo?
Female (37) Seattle, Washington
5f8, 190lbs Looking for an IRL situation based in Seattle, I live downtown and don’t drive so the closer the better! What im looking for: An experienced Dom that is well-versed in BDSM for a longish term (might move out of Seattle next summer) dynamic. I would love to learn from you as I am relatively new to the kink world!! I’m a quick learner and I’m pretty adventurous as long as you’ve earned my trust and care about my well-being. I filled out a kink sheet so you can get a better idea of what I’m interested in. I can share that once we connect :) Hard limits: ***, age play, pet play, race play, sending nsfw videos/pics
Female (23) Seattle, Washington
I’m a lover who wants to find a partner that seeks pleasure and companionship. I want to travel and enjoy the good life with a like-minded other half. I’m interested in who you are.
Female (49) Seattle, Washington
I'm looking for ONS, gangbangs, and verbal ***. I don't send nudes, so don't ask. serious offers only please
Female (19) Seattle, Washington
I'm the B camera. I love taking photos with my phone but not the usual photos most people take. I want to be loved but I think I'm only ment to love others. I'm an introvert that's quiet and I mask until I get comfortable and then you get to know the real me.
Female (44) Seattle, Washington
Looking for someone who will take care of me and treat me like a princess but will put me in my place when necessary 😈
Female (25) Seattle, Washington
mischievous bunny interested in being a good girl. it’s just so hard when I know making bad decisions come with consequences 😍 Brat is such a harsh label, but if the ***r fits😘
Female (35) Seattle, Washington
Hey, I'm new to this app. I don't have any experience with bdsm yet, so I would like to meet nice people who I can talk to about it and ask questions about experiences so I can learn more. I'm still not sure about everything I want, I'm open to trying new stuff and know about everything. Also my location is not right, I'm here for online conversations only. (But we can meet someday after knowing enough each other)
Female (22) Seattle, Washington
I’m a shy submissive who is eager to please! I’ve been in the scene for a few years now and just seeing what’s out there. I’m only looking for online
Female (31) Seattle, Washington
Im adventurous, fun, loving, sexual, open minded, trustworthy,dependable,,smart , like to have fun, love music &dancing. Im in school full time working on getting my Bachelor degree in Accounting!
Female (39) Seattle, Washington
queer femme switch, coming back into my fucking feral goddess energy and loving every lust-filled, badass moment of it Breast / nipple worship (I can cum just from that), light bondage, spanking/whipping/biting/impact play that doesn’t involve drawing *** (significant bruising is a-okay), switch for switch energy, sex in public places, dirty talk, begging to orgasm, audio erotica (fucking feral for this), care play (being told I’m safe, I’m in control, that my neediness is welcomed & celebrated, that I’m cared for), pegging my partner, fun with floggers, being talked through to orgasm, anticipation, body worship, intense consent discussion, squirting (recent achievement unlocked!), occasional findom for the right person, voyeurism, being blindfolded, orgasm denial / edging, exhibitionism, PRAISE! (praise praise and more praise because I am a very good girl), being a sub to a pleasure dom, strap ons, chase or abduction as seduction (after thorough discussion and planning and so much consent), fisting (only with a very trusted partner)…. constantly evolving
Female (42) Seattle, Washington

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